Self-Made, That's an Understatement

I disagree with my past thoughts on Gogol Ganguli.  I should not have ever held him in such a critical light.  After all how else would he gain wisdom if not from trial and error and life's experiences.  I believe Ms. Serensky had a good point when called out the many who too rashly judged Gogol, myself included.  The truth holds that Gogol remains a simple man, with a simple nature.  I judged Gogol for not doing as I would have done, or how I felt most others had done in many situations that surrounded him.  In the case with Moushumi, I would have bluntly asked if I could do anything in the relationship to better serve her needs.  I also would want to know, for instance, if my girlfriend or spouse no longer felt any love for me.  From that point on I would attempt to work out any problems, or if it came down to it, leave the relationship.  But, then again, that serves as to how I would work things out.  I hate having something on my mind that eats away at my thoughts.  I believe it stands as one of the worst ways to feel, a feeling that burrows away in the back of my head like a parasite, only one that taints my thoughts and burdens my feelings.  But, then again that just pertains to my personal beliefs on the matter.  Each person remains different, with different opinions and different thoughts.  Self-made? That's an understatement. One cannot change their past, their actions, the things they have experienced, or their self-worth.  One cannot judge Gogol for things they have or have not experienced.  Gogol has his own life to live, and he stands as his own person.  How can one say whether what he does, or does not do proves wrong or right?